“Marginalized people, we don’t have the answers to ending our own oppression. And I just thought, do you know what you’re asking? Do you know what that costs? And so I decided to take that one for the team and do it. “There was a woman who wrote a review about my book Bad Feminist, which has an essay called ‘What We Hunger For.’ And she said that when I didn’t describe my sexual assault, she threw the book across the room-she was irritated that I didn’t go into detail. They’re not putting their own fatphobia on the air, which would be very illustrative and useful. I mean, that has to be asked? And then I get another interview with CBC, and the woman said, ‘Describe your body to me.’ The question didn’t make it on the air. But at one point host Terry Gross said, ‘So what language should I use to describe your body?’ We were not in the same studio, thank God, because my face just went. “I did an interview on NPR’s Fresh Air recently and, all things considered, it was a good interview. And if you want to suffer and eat that salad-even though we all know you don’t want to eat that salad-that’s on you. Yes, I’m going to eat that hamburger, and it’s going to be fucking delicious. “It’s hard having to constantly explain yourself, trying to say, ‘I’m a good fat person, and I’m not fulfilling the stereotypes that you have about fatness.’ What I’m trying to do lately is not explain myself. Here are some key points from Gay’s talk. “In general, throughout my writing career, the things I’ve been most afraid of have been the things that have been most intellectually satisfying,” she said. Now she’s on tour rehashing its contents on a near-nightly basis. It’s a visceral and often uncomfortable book-one Gay repeatedly has said she felt reluctant to write.
She writes about society’s perception of fat people as “undisciplined” and the discrimination they face because of it, and why refusing to say the word “fat” (which she views as a neutral descriptor) reveals that person’s belief that “fat” is an insult. The event was surprisingly upbeat, considering Hunger delves into the raw, vulnerable aspects of Gay’s life, including her struggles navigating the world as a fat person and the aftermath of a sexual assault she suffered at age 12.
Parker School in Lincoln Park on Monday while promoting her new memoir Hunger.Īt the Chicago Humanities Festival event, the bestselling writer and New York Times columnist addressed the crowd with her typical wryness, read two chapters from Hunger, took questions, and paused in interludes to crack jokes. Roxane Gay, author of Bad Feminist and Untamed State, spoke to a crowd of hundreds at Francis W.